This is blog post is a little different than the others…
Several months ago, I found myself in the midst of an internal struggle. I was grappling with revelations about how I perceived others and myself. Interactions with people facing their own challenges compounded this struggle, often leaving me feeling misunderstood. As I journeyed towards a new understanding, I realized that at my core, I AM LOVE. Yet, I struggled to find a reference point for the kind of man I aspired to be. With two amazing daughters and two beautiful grandchildren, I had to confront a question I often pose to others: What Kind of Ancestor Will You Be?
In the early hours of one morning, I remembered something I read that has become the theme of this phase of my life: embrace the innocence of a child and the wisdom of an adult. These seemingly contrasting qualities can coexist harmoniously, enriching our experiences and relationships.
The Innocence of a Child
Observing my grandchildren, Jacob and Aryanna, I am reminded of how children view the world through a lens of purity and openness. Their innocence allows them to experience life with unfiltered wonder and curiosity. Here are several key characteristics I've found quite interesting:
Purity and Openness: Children approach life without preconceived notions, seeing beauty in the mundane and joy in simple things.
Unfiltered Emotions: They express their feelings openly, whether through laughter, tears, or excitement, reminding adults of the importance of authenticity.
Imagination and Creativity: Children are natural storytellers and dreamers, with creativity that knows no bounds, often leading to innovative ideas.
Learning and Growth: Their innate curiosity drives exploration and learning, fostering a lifelong love for knowledge and discovery.
Connection and Empathy: Genuine connections formed in childhood can lead to empathy and understanding, essential qualities in our interactions with others.
The Wisdom of an Adult
As I reconsider what it means to be a "wise adult," I've had to reflect on how wisdom shapes my view of the world and my role in it. For me, wisdom is characterized by:
Experience and Knowledge: Adults draw from a wealth of experiences, enabling informed decisions and valuable guidance.
Perspective and Reflection: Wisdom emerges from reflecting on past experiences, learning from mistakes, and developing a nuanced understanding of complex situations.
Emotional Regulation: Adults generally possess better emotional control, allowing thoughtful responses rather than impulsive reactions.
Decision-Making: Wisdom brings the ability to make choices considering long-term consequences, leading to more thoughtful outcomes.
Mentorship and Guidance: Adults can share insights and experiences with younger generations, helping them navigate life's complexities.
How The Synergy of Innocence and Wisdom Manifests
The relationship between innocence and wisdom is not one-sided; both qualities teach valuable lessons:
Children Teach Adults: Adults can learn from children's innocence, embracing curiosity, creativity, and emotional honesty, leading to a more joyful and fulfilling life.
Adults Guide Children: Conversely, children benefit from adults' wisdom, gaining insights to help navigate their own journeys.
Cultivating Both Qualities: By nurturing both innocence and wisdom, we enhance our creativity and problem-solving abilities.
Embracing childlike wonder while applying adult wisdom has led to innovative solutions and a more fulfilling existence.
Conclusion
The connection between a child's innocence and an adult's wisdom offers a rich framework for navigating experiences that enhance our lives. By appreciating and nurturing both qualities, we create a harmonious balance that benefits ourselves and those around us.
My challenge has been shedding old "programming" that suggests we should "match energies" with those who treat us poorly. The Divine in me resists that notion and seeks to love. I realize I may have appeared quiet or reclusive in recent months. I needed time to reconnect with the wounded child within me who was once reckless with his words. As I remove these blockages to embody love, I invite you to do the same. We've all seen what happens when we embrace the alternative.
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